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May 02, 2010
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Girlfriend is in rehab for pills, im torn on what is right for me
by: Billy J. M.

I have read the stories above and have a very simular except I actually tried the drugs with her because i got so jealous of it taking her away from me..I dont suggest this to anyone. Only by the Grace of my loving Father in heaven did I stop and continue to try to get her help. I will say for the two weeks I had her full attention, but their still was love for me...Only for IT...She is in rehab now for 30 to 120 days. She snuck out to get peircings with a couple of girls and called me t pay for the peircings over the phone. I was dissappointed however I didnt say anything to her about it because she was so proud of being clean...I didnt hear back from them again til the next morning when she called and said she had been walking the street all night with the other girl but that she was still clean...She asked me to drive 3 hours to go and help. I knew the center was going to call me and did. i told them i had heard from her but that i didnt know where she was...They of course called me a liar and i was ok with that for the moment...I thought if i trick her as they wanted me to do and perhaps it happened again while she is getting to the place where she's going to be serious then she probably wouldnt trust me to call me for help...Now the only other people she would know to call will bring her drugs if that was what she wanted...So i made my decision to go...I went and she stayed clean while i worked it out for her to get back in and she did while the other girl used thru the night and we didnt know about it...So she is back in rehab and i feel pretty good about the whole thing. I get a phone call from her dad who is a very loving father...which I am the one that went to him and let him know how serious it was a because i knew if was anything like me he would do whatever it would take to help and he did./..So anyway he used to think i was the greatest thing for his daughter but because a couple dopers said while he was at her house that they were they to see me, and so even upon explaining to him i have nothing to do with any of this he still just seems different ot me...When his daughter and i started dating 2 years ago she had a little girl 2 months old that calls me daddy...So anyway im on my home thinking everything went great when i get a call from him and thinking he was going to thank me for caring enough to go but instead he asked me i thought i was going to accomplish by going their..I told "just what i did accomplish" she is safe back in rehab...He said she doensnt need your help she is just using you...stop sending her letters and just stay out of it

Feb 25, 2010
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Drugs, drinking, lies, cheating, manipulations etc..... ahahah
by: Max

I have been reading your sad story. this is what happened to me for the past 3 years! I met her, she was cool , easy going but I discovered that she was drinking every time that she or we were going out and she was out of control, even mad when at 2 am, i was saying let`s go home! Then her friends, alcoholic people and doing drugs but she was telling me that they were friends for a long time and their drug problems was not hers! then quite a few time, she went out of control, ballistic because i busted her going to the restrooms with 2 persons, she did not say anything, understood that I was suspicious but then once in the car, she started to smoke, was driving crazy, almost hit a cop car at the traffic light and almost run a stop sign... i go out of the car and she took off not even caring about me, the area was not very good... how nice, right! then one day, i said let`s do a hair test! she was like " yeah sure" but let me tell you, those people know how to keep it up, they have been lying to their family and etc for decades or years... then, she found another friend, more alcoholic than the first one, a pure white trash.. real bad... in 2005, she took off to L.A to get away. In 07 when we started to date, she was telling me that she was clean in L.A and that L.A was healthy etc.... then one day in 2008, one of her friend tells me that she met her in L.A and that my gf was supposed to meet her at LAX, .. she did not show up and once my gf visited her at the hotel she even did not know where she was!!!! THEN I understood, that she was lying non-stop..non-stop. According to your story, I feel the same, I loved her a lot and now she has a dog and i do care of the dog a lot, a lot and it has nothing to do with me trying to stick with her but just I am a dog lover. But I am out of it. The bad thing in my story, I know that she will try to hurt me, psychologically, she already did many times. I tried to show her some peace but if I open my eyes and my heart, she is very hateful and I think she has no hope, no feelings. But let me tell you, you need to get out of it. There is no love in your story, love is not this. Love is fun, with respect. I talked to my gf for the past 3 years, hours and hours. tried all tactics, all Technics.. nothing worked. fucking nothing... yep it is bad but better to realize that being psychology dead! Because those people are volonturaly and unconsciously dangerous. When You have a real psycho girl, it is easy to walk away cause it is obvious, real obvious. when you have a crazy"" girl or guy, half crazy and half ok, then this is were the problem comes from. Some of those people have something and i guess you like to take care of someone too. You might have a soft spot, You like the dog , so i am not surprised..... and your soft spot is in a hostage situation. My stupid advice... take the dog and run away

Jan 26, 2010
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Make a Call
by: Anonymous

Do you want to be with a woman or who does drugs, or don't you? Make the call ... and then you need to communicate that to your girlfriend. She then has to decide, get serious about cleaning up her act, or you're moving on. Because if you don't - this is just gonna keep being a problem. And what kind of life and future can you build with a girl for whom drugs play such a big part? I would rather take the pain now and get it over with by moving on, rather than have it fester like an ongoing wound that never goes away. Tough call bud, but it's your future at stake here.

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