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Dec 07, 2011
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by: Anonymous

I too fell in love with a drug addict.
After only a month of dating. I became addict to meth. He introduced me to it. It's been three year now. We are not together anymore. But I still love him with all my heart. He's still using and I was clean for a year but recently started to use again. I understand your pain. I thought I'd be over him by now, but I was so wrong. I know I love him so much more than he will ever love me. He constantly treats me terribly, but I still want to be with him.

Apr 28, 2010
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me to
by: Anonymous

I to am in love with a drug addict,it starded out small things at frist,hey babe can i get $ 20 from u, then it went to, i am out on the job and have a flat and no spare, i am sending someone over there to get some money, i hope i make it home, love you, then it went to stealing the kids christmas gifts, brithday gifts, he was always very sorry for what he did, and told me it doesnt matter how good a wife you are or how good you are in bed, when they go on benge,nothing else matters, i was always there to pick him up from jail, or to cover or replace what he had taken from others, he moved out and i would trun my phone off, he would ask why is your phone off i might need you, they get so use to you being there for them, i have just sold my house and moveing out of state, i guess the point to this is, yes i still love him, i love him so much i have to let him hit rock bottom, alone, no wife, no kids, no home, maybe then he will see what love is.

Oct 29, 2009
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HOPE THIS HELPS
by: Anonymous

I am sorry for you. Yes, the same exact thing happened to me. The only difference was that it was 2 years and I treated him like a King as well. I don't really know what to do but I am starting with attending meetings both NA and Alanon. Hopefully this will help thru the process. I think your having the hardest time like I was I am over it more now but because you don't understand. You don't understand why he doesn't want to be with you after you treated him so well. I don't completely understand it either but I have talked to recovering addicts about this and they all say the same thing. They say the addicts number one priority is drugs and that they cannot have obligations like girlfriend, wife, kids, especially when the significant other isn't using. Talk about it, go to meetings, maybe that will help you in the recovery process as well. You may have become co-dependent, or the enabler.

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